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He told me he likes my cousin! How do I get over him?

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Question - (12 June 2014) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2014)
A age 22-25, * writes:

I worked with this guy and we talked quite a bit, we became friends and then things started going quicker. He had/still has a girlfriend and two kids and one on the way. But He would ask me to send him pictures(nude ones) and I did because well i started liking him and I ended up telling him that I liked him. I was a virgin and he knew it, I ended up losing my virginity to him and I thought that he may stop talking to me because well he got what it seemed he wanted. Well we still talk actually and then I moved out of state but we still talk, he still asks me for pictures and videos and stuff. He asks me for my advice on things and I help him because well I have feelings for him. Anyway so he asked me for help and long story short he told me how he likes my cousin (who is married and is going to have a baby) and how its effecting his relationship he's in right now. He's liked her since high school I guess. My question is how do I get over this pain/sadness I am feeling, I like him a lot but obviously it seems he doesn't like me because he knows I like him and he told me he likes my cousin.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2014):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you all for your help

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A female reader, llifton United States +, writes (13 June 2014):

llifton agony auntHey sweetie. I'm sorry to hear that you're upset. Rightfully so. It seems to me that this guy isn't very nice. A good guy doesn't cheat on his gf like that. Especially not one who is about to have his child. And he also doesn't take someone's virginity, knowing good and well that he's not looking for a relationship.

I think you would be best off to just cut him from you're life. I know that's not easy, but I think it would be for the best in the long run. As I said, I don't get the impression that he's that nice of a guy and I don't think you deserve to be hurt.

I hope you feel better.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2014):

petina1 agony auntFind something else to do. He will never ever want to be with you. He is using you. Block all contact with him.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (13 June 2014):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntQuestion: "My question is how do I get over this pain/sadness I am feeling,.... "

Answer: You GROW UP!!!!! and tell this creep that you never want to see him, or have anything to do with him, for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!! Is that perfectly clear?????

Good luck...

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