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writes: me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over 3 weeks and it was love at first site for the both of us. well things started off well he lives about 20 or 30 minutes away from me so we try to see each other as much as we can. i love spending time with him but he don't want to spend too much time with me. i know he needs his space and i do too but i really do care about him, am i being selfish for wanting him to be with me all the time? he hangs out with his friends more than he sees me and i feel like he cares more about them than me sometimes. i have a hard time telling people my feelings but i know i need to open up to him. so what should i do? open up and tell him how i feel? or just let it go like i am now? Reply to this Question
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (25 July 2009):
 I had this problem with my ex. But it is hard to tell as your relationship is only in the baby stages. Also as your boyfriend lives about half an hour away that can also make things hard to get to see you (my ex lived about 5 minutes away in the car.)With my current boyfriend I don't have this problem, mainky because he puts me first but secondly because we have a lot of the same friends. Go and hang out with him and his friends and get to know them - then he can make the most of being with both of you at the same time.If the problem persists or gets worse then I would speak up about it. He could be completely oblivious that it's bothering you and maybe he would change that if he knew. But if it continues to go downhill then it could be time to move on.He needs to be putting equal time into you and his mates, not more of one than the other.
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