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writes:My boyfriend and I have been going out for a long time. Recently we went on a break but that only lasted a couple days and we're back together again but it seems like things have changed a little. Okay, a lot! I hung out a couple nights ago and I thought things went alright, he even kissed me which he hasn't done in a long while so I thought everything was good but the next night I texted him a couple of times but he texted me back once saying he was at monster jam so I let him be. At like 10 or 11 I called but he didn't answer, I didn't really think anything of it. Tonight I was trying to get a hold of him all day and texted him a few times called a couple... then watched a movie with my sister and dad, and called him after... he finally answered but after I said hey what are you doing he got really quiet. I'm trying to trust him more, because he really hasn't given me a reason not to except for talking to a couple girls on myspace that he didn't or barely knew. I don't want to jump to conclusions and think he's cheating on me... but it has went through my mind, but unlike any other time I haven't said anything to him about it so am I just worrying too much or should I be worried? Is this normal after a break and almost breaking up? I just need help so any would be great... ty
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 February 2008):
 He could be having some second thoughts or his mind is facing some mental problems or he is confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): If he is not acting like himself then of course you should worry. I mean don't panic or anything, no need for that. Has he always been this way, where you call and he always seems to be busy or unavailable? Yes something might be off about all this, maybe his feelings changed and maybe it is time for you to reconsider where this relationship really stands. Feelings don't change overnight like that just because you took a break. If his feelings have changed it probably is something that he has felt for a while, even before the break. I mean I don't know why you two broke up or even why you got back together, but in all honesty, to me it sounds like his heart isn't all into this relationship right now and that is why he is being stand offish. Your best bet is to let him know that you notice that he is acting distant and ask him what's going on. And if he can't answer you then I would just not ask again and just let him be. Don't cal him. Don't look for him. Just try to be on your own for a while.
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reader, sugar_sugar +, writes (11 February 2008):
 To me, it seems strange. Usually after a break if both people still want to be with each other things should be better than before (if only temporarily). The fact that he is withdrawn is a little troubling.I say trust your gut instinct.
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