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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was seeing this guy for two weeks, we text everyday regularly like every 5- 15 mins apart from when he was working. We had a laugh and it was great. He made plans for our future and is the most genuine guy Im met before. He told me the last time I saw him (few days ago) he has depression. Not a problem for me but he says now he can't be with me until his head is sorted. He says he wants me to be happy, and he couldn't put me through it. I want to be there for him though and he wont let me. We now don't text much, which hurts me as I really care for him and want to be there for him. I have my own issues of trust. Even though I believe him, that he says he isnt ready for anything more just yet, I am scared he will go off with someone else ( which I know is ridiculous). But its happened to me with the other guys I have dated. Or he'll forget about me or what he ever saw in me. I guess my question is... what would you do in my situation? I really, really like him a lot and even though I want to be there for him, I dont want to push him away either.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (27 May 2012):
 Hi
You have only been seeing him for 2 weeks so you barely know each other.Its all been a bit full-on so maybe he doesn't feel the same now. Perhaps hes decided your not for him and has invented depression. Perhaps he really does have it.If you had sex he may not have felt a connection. Could be lots of reasons.
Give him some space,stop texting, let him decide from afar what is best for him.Have to say I think he has decided already. But you never know he may surprise you.
The thing is you know there are more decent men out there so just carry on with life as you were before you met him. Go with the flow.
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