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*adebed
writes:I've been goin out with this guy for about two years. But since we hit our first anniversary he went on holiday to the coast and cheated on me. I did too as part of revenge later but i didnt have sex. Neither did he, but i'm sure he'd hav if not for his inability to have an erection for other gals other than me- guys does this happen? He's quite a catch and many gals still want and they write to him on facebook, hey sweetheart i love u or i miss u soo, but he does nothin to put them off infact he arranges coffee dates and things like rekindlin the past dates. Whenever i ask him, beg, coerce him to leave this gals alone he just wont and tells me to live with it. He also claims to love me but doesnt like me as a person. We've broken up numerous times and made up. I love him too much but i feel like am being taken for a joyride. Advice me. I've hit rock bottom and i'm digging further down. Help!!
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reader, Jadebed +, writes (13 June 2009):
Jadebed is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, i'll try and tell u how it goes. I actually didnt think this works, it was my first question. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009): You need to get out of that ASAP.If he cares for you than he shouldn't treat you that way. Relationships are all about consideration for the other and finding middle ground. It doesn't sound like he does either. I know you love him and I don't doubt that at all, but if this is what he's doing in front of you, there's probably a lot he's doing out of sight. He sounds like the kind of guy that you think you know, but you really don't.
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