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writes:if a man takes longer that usual to climax, does that mean he might have had intercourse recently? I confronted him about a female (and about some texts from her).This confrontation took place three days after the texts were sent. He tried to push it to the side and offered very little explanation. Does that mean he was lying? I couldnt see the texts that he was supposeed to have written. I could only see the two from her.He claims he doesn't even know where the texts came from, who they were from, yet all those texts has already been read.please help i need some advice
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (30 December 2012):
 I doubt it means 100% that he slept with someone, more like he feel guilty over something, most likely LYING to your face.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@A female reader, anonymous
its a long story but he knew who this girl was it wasnt supposed to say that he didnt know who they where from..i couldnt see the text he had supposed to have wrote but i seen her to and 1 said "shit" and the next 1 that was 15 minutes later said"lool shut up" those dont sound like random text..i came to find out he had stop to give her something earlier that week but when i talked to her she didnt even tell me that part..he was the one that told me that part but thier storys dont add up..he said he met her outside by her self she says he came to her house and her sister was there..but she is known for being nasty and lying so no one thinks she is like that...but it is a real long story with a lot of other details..to long to write on here
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionA female reader, person12345my gut is the reason i found all this out but as to the text he swears he didnt write her any and he didnt even remeMber seeing the 2 from her and that she must have randomly sent them..but its 3 days after going to meet her and he cant really remember what had happened like how they met what they talked about..he remember part as time went on and told me
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you A female reader, ApresMoi
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reader, person12345 +, writes (29 December 2012):
 I doubt it means he recently had sex with someone, but it could be an emotional thing. I think the texts sound very suspicious and agree that you should listen to your gut here. Unfortunately in these situations when you have a feeling it's often right.
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reader, ApresMoi +, writes (29 December 2012):
It seems suspicious. If you still want to be with him, pretend like you suspect nothing. He will get comfortable and slip up. It's possible that nothing is going on, or he's not telling you something but it's still completely innocent.
Listen to your gut, but if you love him give him the benefit of the doubt. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2012): He shouldn't take longer unless it was so recent as to be earlier in the day
Its hard to tell if he is cheating or if someone sent the texts to the wrong phone number. Maybe you should have asked instead of "confronted" him then he would be more likely to tell the truth. When you confront you put the other person on the defensive even if they have done nothing wrong. And then their focus isn't to tell the truth but to say whatever they think will make you less upset. His sweeping this issue aside could be his way of trying to downplay it so as to not fuel your anger even more. Even if he is innocent because when you confront someone it means you already have decided they are guilty and you're looking for confirmation.
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