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22-25,
anonymous
writes:So I've been with my boyfriend a fair while now, however when we first got together he had just gotten out of what had not only been a 3 year long relationship, but also his first relationship ever. I on the other hand have been with a couple of guys.ANYWAYS, I had noticed for a while that despite him knowing that getting eaten out turns me on, that he wouldn't do it for more than a few seconds at a time. I eventually asked why and it was made clear that he doesn't like the way i taste. I let that knowledge sit for a few weeks, then the next time we did stuff it came up again. Only this time it wasn't that he doesn't necessarily dislike how I taste, he said that because he was used to a girl who was fresh (he was her first everything pretty much) and he was used to the taste of someone who had been used. Someone please tell me, how the hell do i fix this? I really like him and I know he is just bitter because i have been with a few guys and he has only ever been with this one girl. But surely there is something I can do or say to change his mind? I don't want to end things as this is really our only big problem, I just don't know how to fix this on. All help appreciated!!! Thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, hany  +, writes (14 January 2016):
 Hello
me also doesn't like that he compares you with another girl
and I would like to add a few things
-you have always to take a shower before sex
-take at least one shower every day (at night) if you make it Two it will be perfect (important to keep away from a very hot shower because it kills your body's natural bacteria) make it warm better
-use a full back cotton underwear and keep away from the tight ones
-eat a lot of fruits
-eat a lot of Yogurt it contains healthy bacteria
sorry for my English and I wish to you good luck
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female
reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (13 January 2016):
 No person can "taste" experience on a girl - unless you just had sex with several other dudes then... let him do oral on you...
Whether a girl is a virgin or NON virgin her flavor doesn't change. What CAN change (as far as flavor goes) is what that particular girl eats and drinks AND where she is at in her cycle.
Either use dental dams ( or basically saran wrap) so he doesn't ACTUALLY taste you... OR you can use flavored lubes (which I won't really recommend as they contain chemicals/sugar not really healthy for the vagina's ph which in turn can cause irritation for YOU.)
OR he can POP a life-saver, tic-tac, mint before the deed. That way all HE can taste is... that.
If you smoke or drink a LOT of coffee (some teas as well) then I'd add more water to the diet and maybe cut down on the coffee. Also eating fruits with your breakfast can "sweeten the deal".
OR he can use his fingers instead of his mouth.
I think he is being a ignorant twat if he seriously think all girls taste the same or that virgins taste "fresher".. What a load of ....
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female
reader, Tiggzy  +, writes (12 January 2016):
 Okay, one thing I have learnt with guys is yes sure they like girls to themselves but unfortuantly as it goes he's not exactly a virgin either considering he had a girl before you right, okay well to solve everything, find out his favourite fruit or flavour, and invest in some flavoured lube, pop it on a little, don't be embarrased because this will make you feel great, this will stop the taste being so bitter, maybe he'll enjoy it and why not, it's fun, hope this helped.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 January 2016):
 If he is not comfortable doing this well then you have to respect his wishes.
The way he compares you to his ex is very unfair and immature off him. No two women are the same and they should never be compared.
If it helps before you are both intimate maybe you should have a shower and use a fragrance free wash down there to keep things fresh.
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