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writes: hey my name is whitney and im 13 and my b/f Evan is 14 and moved to phili and he hasnt talked to me for 1 1/2 days and he said he would call me like everyday and he said we will be together 4 ever and im so sad cuz when i dont talk to him i get sad a depressed and cant stop thinkin about him cuz 4 all i know he could be cheating on me and he was goin to go to a party tonight but idk i love him so much but i guess its just teenage love and he told me that lotz of gurls like him so idk ne more i just want to know that he doesnt lie to me and that he would never cheat on me what should i do?
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (27 December 2006):
 This must feel like the end of the world to you, BUT (and this is not meant to patronise) it really isn't. Allow yourself to keep up this freindship, even if it whittles down to once or twice a month letters or emails. Allow yourself to grow and spread your wings.
Who knows what the future holds for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2006): lol, sweetie. I know right now , this seems like the END of the world to you. But Everything happens for a reason. & you're only 13; Forever is a strong word. Don't ever stress about the future. Take things day by day. enjoy your childhood, you've got plenty time for guys ;)
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-lindsay
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reader, XxXLoveAngelXxX +, writes (26 December 2006):
 Its only been 1 1/2 days! Don't worry about it he's probably just busy.. after all he just moved! I know you must really miss him and your used to seeing him regularly, but you should have faith in him. After all, if he says he wants to be with you forever he must really have feelings for you and wouldn't cheat. Keep smiling XxXxX
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (24 December 2006):
 bless your little heart Whitney.
It has only been a day and a half since you last spoke to him, I am sure he has just been busy. I do think that it is hard to keep a long distance relationship going, it causes too much heartache.
You are very young hunny, you have your whole life ahead of you. Have some fun, put boys on hold for a little while. Beleive me you dont want to grow up too quickly, its not that great.
Let him down gently and explain your reasons for doing this. The choice is yours hunny.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2006): Whitney: sorry, but both of you are very young. Much too young, in fact, to be putting this amount of "weight" on this young boy. Because that's what he is; a young boy, and you are barely out of childhood.
Its been ONE AND A HALF days since you heard from him. For goodness sake, get a grip! He's in a new place and has all sorts of things to do and his own life to live - AND SO DO YOU!! YOU have a life at school, and with your friends, family and social activities and interests and that's what you should be concentrating on! ESPECIALLY your school work!
At your age "love" doesn't last too long. Because, biologically, it IS just teenage "love" and as exciting as it may be, and much as you may like one another, you are not ready to settle down with one person. Your body is still growing; so are your emotions and you're exploring and learning about life.
I know you would LIKE right now, to be together for ever. But face it, that's most likely not going to happen. Again, at this stage of your life, THAT IS HOW IT OUGHT TO BE AND IS QUITE NORMAL.
You should be making friends with other boys - (and not having sex with anyone, either) as should he.
I know you miss him and are anxious, and I'm sure he does like you, but if you can stop worrying so much and get on with other things, you'll do better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2006): first thing....just breathe...its only been a day and a half! chill out....i know its nerve recking being away from somone you really care about....last summer i only saw my bf of 7 months 2 or 3 times over the entire summer...and i almost never talked to him becuase he was soooooooo busy! u just have to trust ur bf! try not to think about the bad...just try to think about the good times. Hes probably not calling you everyday becuase hes busy! if he said u 2 will be together forever then he probably really really likes u and he will be good to u while hes gone!
it is just teenage love......but if u really care about him...then just trust him, and try to talk to him when u can.....and savor those preasious moments that u r talking to him
(p.s im ur age..well 14)
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