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He put it in me, am I still a virgin?

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Question - (3 June 2010) 13 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2010)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay well tonight me and my boyfriend were fooling around and we decided to try do IT for the first time, i was a virgin he wasnt, well anyways he only put it in a bit but it really hurt soo i told him to stop, my question is am i still a virgin?, im kinda hoping i am because we said wed wait until next time and try again and it will proberly hurt again. Plus i was bleeding a little bit afterwards.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010):

You are obviously aren't a virgin anymore because of the fact he actually put it in you, and that after you were done you were bleeding because he reached to your hymen (A Layer of skin over your vaginal opening.) Once its destroyed, bleeding is caused. So, basically he "popped your cherry."

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A female reader, busy04 United States +, writes (4 June 2010):

busy04 agony auntNo problem Hun :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010):

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Pheww thanks for that confirmation busy04 i got really confused by that last comment.

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A female reader, busy04 United States +, writes (4 June 2010):

busy04 agony auntDoc-virus,

The young lady is NOT a virgin any longer. She obviously has some clue that his penis DID enter her & she had bleeding afterwards. Your point is valid in the fact that once the Hymen breaks, you're no longer a virgin & all of the facts that she stated here in her post point to that.

She's not a virgin,not by "culture", but by her actual description (half penetration, blood & pain) of experiencing losing her virginity. Don't confuse her. Please :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010):

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What do you mean down by culture term ?

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A male reader, Doc-virus United States +, writes (3 June 2010):

Well a girl lossess her virginity when she breaks the tin strip of skin inside the vigina. but in actually fact once in its down by culture term. but you are still a virgin

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010):

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Nope my religion teacher was a man , plus i graduated last week.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010):

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Oh okay I was confused on what peoples views of a virgin were as iv heard different opinions on this site and other places, thanks people. oh and marie clare we do not have sex ed in school in religion (dont know why) we were told about stds and stuff like that. and when i was taught about periods and the repoductive system was in sixth class when i was twelve or in science in junior cycle :/

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010):

I agree with xanthic, you should probably wait if you don't know basics.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (3 June 2010):

YouWish agony auntNope, even the slightest penetration is enough to end your virginity. You are officially no longer a virgin. It most likely will not hurt so bad next time.

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A female reader, busy04 United States +, writes (3 June 2010):

busy04 agony auntIf a penis is inserted in your vagina either fully or partially, you are NO LONGER A VIRGIN.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010):

No you are not a virgin , your virginity is lost as soon as the penis is inserted into the vagina even if its only a bit and it sounds like he has broken your hymen so your are definitely not a virgin sorry x

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (3 June 2010):

xanthic agony auntNo, you're not a virgin any more. You obviously need to learn more about sex before actually having it.

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