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female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 years, and it seems as though lately, he has completely changed and doesn't care about me anymore.He's started going out drinking more often with friends not inviting me. He's recently changed his apperance hairstyle/new clothes and just doesn't care about my opinion or whether he hurts my feelings.I love him so much but he makes me feel unloved, ugly and paranoid.What do you think I should do? I hate feeling this way but I dont want to lose him.
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reader, baby duck  + ♥, writes (28 March 2008):
 It really does not matter if you lost him ... what matters is that he's treating you lousy and you want to keep him.
There is nothing you can do with a person that is so manipulative that they treat you hatefully and have no remorse, except for leave.
Why do you want him? Because of how he used to be? Because you think he has the potential to be a loving, kind person? The fact of the matter is, he's hurting you on purpose. So, not only is he mean, but he does not respect you.
You deserve better. When you leave and he comes groveling back, don't take him ... because you are just a game to him, and if you take him back, he "wins" ... and he'll be back to his old tricks.
Mark my words.
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reader, mikey_m +, writes (28 March 2008):
It's harsh, but maybe you already have. It sounds like he might have met someone else. Snoop around a bit and see.
This happened to me recently. It's terrible. I am sorry.
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