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*lliebellie
writes: (13 year old girl)I met this guy 5/6 months ago and we went out 4/5 times. Things were fine until his friend told me he doesn't fancy me. To cut a long story short, i was angry he didn't tell me and got someone else to do it. Apparently he wasn't meant to tell me. So wants to be friends. I'm fine with that, but the more i think about it the more im falling deeper and deeper in love with him. I have quite low self esteem so when i found out about how he doesn't fancy me i felt so depressed, like i wasn't good enough. I still feel quite confused. I understand that feelings change but i find it difficult to let go. I'm worried love will be like this always, that i'll always like the person more than they like me.Helpxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): i totally feel you girl. through highschool i was always in relationships, but i never really understood them. i just ended a 3 year relationship, and im trying to get back into dating.. and i can tell you, its really frustrating sometimes. you just have to take EVERY relationship in a healthy mature way. not to discredit how amazing love is, but in the initial dates, you have to understand that they are just trying to get to know you. if they're not into you.. well thats just how it is and you really cant change it. dont fall so fast, it will save you some heartache.
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