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writes:i am having a realtionship with my gf for over a year ..the problem is i often feel outweigh byher-ex becoz he was like the popular,gudlooking,rich,... jerk type and im just a 'normal' guy..she is a nice girl and loves me but i cant get over the idea why that she could fall for him?(her-ex is already famous of his jerkness=was my friend too). and i often think all the things she was doing with him .how they kissed,made out and stuff.It irritates me..idk what should i do?should i break up with her becoz i cant feel happy.? Reply to this Question
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (21 June 2009):
 Dont compare yourself to him. Shes with you now and not him for simple reasons, shes in love with you and wants to be with you and doesnt feel that way about you. Easy. So stop fretting it and be happy you got her. She obviously was with him because the money and popularity attracted her but as soon as she realised what a jerk he was she got outta there.
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reader, dandada14  +, writes (21 June 2009):
 well she has u now and u have to forget about who she had she made a mistake but she likes u . take the relationship by the hands and be a man abnout it she wont want u feelin sad about stuff like that u will look weak be strong for the relationship my brother.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (21 June 2009):
 mmmmm... sounds as if you have some security issues.
You must have a few things going for you for the girl to date you!
dont be hard on yourself and stop comparing yourself to the other guy, we all our unique and have our own talents, you should love yourself for what you are and not compare yourself to others.
Dont break up with her and regret it. Just concentrate on being a good guy for her and see how you guys go. Dont pressure yourself and stop the negative thinking!
if the other guy was so perfect like you say , why arent they still together?
exactly.
So just be happy your healthy, and have a nice gf ! enjoy your moments and quit the over thinking.
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