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female
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30-35,
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writes:Well I love this boy a lot since about the 8th grade (last year) and I can't seem to get over him, I'm really hoping I can get some advice so please help me someone. I really do still love him a lot but he just wants us to be really good friends and he told me he likes me a little but he says he doesn't want to hurt our friendship and I told him he wouldn't, it would make me the happiest person on earth if today he wouold just ask me out. I don't know what I'll do if I don't get to see him in a week. He is my first love, I only had 2 boyfriend's in my whole life so please someone, help me here. Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (12 March 2007):
 Guys like the chase so don't seem too "needy" or desperate around him. Let him see YOU only look to him as a friend too. Don't let him think he's the centre of your world or you'll never get him. Play a little harder to get. Don't be in his company all the time and let him MISS you! If you do find yourself in his company, make your excuses to leave before he does, let him see you have your own life and your own friends too.
If he does value your friendship and really likes you then he'll miss you if you're not around as often and call or text you to see where you are. Again, don't be too gushy with him and don't always text immediately. Play hard to get and if he does like you then you'll reel him in!
Eve
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