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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I met this guy online on a website not for dating. He contacted me first after I posted something about a video he did. He is the same age as me and kind in the same situation. Neither of us had been in a real relationship. I was not looking for anything when I responded to his email. We then exchanged email addresses and began talking on a instant messenger. Much later through texts. In the begining he said I was his girlfriend well at least his online girlfriend. And we've been on and off for a year. I'm tired of fighting with him. One mintue he is rude and insulting and says he does not care about how I feel because I'm just a girl online. Then the next mintue he is sorry sending me voice texts with funny songs that he sang. Another mintue he is all lovey dovey and after I do something for him then he changes and says he was just horny. ***a warning to those who expose themseleves on webcam. Don't do it. Nobody wins and you just end up feeling exposed and used. I've helped him with alot with his projects. Researching products, gathering materials, promoting his videos and he says he appreciates it but then he treats me like crap. And when it comes do things for me he doesn't come through. I want to quit to him and I've tried so many times too. But I find myself going back to talking with him. I can't understand why I can't just let him go. Or even why he can't just leave me alone when I ask him too because the very next day or mintue he says sorry. Why do women stay with terrible men? why can't I let him go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): im in the same exact situation ecept i know the guy.
he has mixed feelings about you believe it or not i think he cares about you but dosent know how to show it becasue you guys dont actually see eachother in real.
not all women stay with terrible men but sometimes women dont see what else is out there and they love him and are scared to take the next step...
tell him how you feel wether he likes it or not you need to talk to him. if he continues then find someone new someone that is close to you and you can see. i doubt that there isent one guy out there that respects you and loves you and appreciates every single thing you do.
if this guy really did care for you or loved you then he wouldent disrespect you like that. dont tame that from someone. ever. your not an animal your a person. and show him and stand up to him and tell him you wont tollerate it anymore.
no matter how much it hurts.
boys come and go.
there are tons of other guys out there. hes not the only fish in the sea.
-good luck!-
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reader, natasia  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 have you actually ever met up with this guy? (and yes, he sounds like a total idiot - just stop replying - it's like giving up cigarettes or alcohol, and much easier if he's only virtual - find a real guy) nx
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