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My 18 year old son is sexually involved with a 13 year old

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Question - (18 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2009)
A female Barbados age 51-59, *irgo writes:

hi i'm a concerned parent,my son who was eighteen at the time is sexually involved with a thirteen year old,i only found out a few days ago.she allows him to come by her house when her mother is not home,i told her not to allow him to come by anymore and to stop selling her self short she have more time ahead of her and to hold off where boys are concern.i told her if she don't do as i say i'll tell her mom even though that is not what i would want to do.

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A female reader, virgo Barbados +, writes (25 June 2009):

virgo is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank all of you for your different views & answers to the question i posed.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009):

leave them alone! age is just a number if they both want this then back off it is thier life and interfering is not fair considering it is a consensual relationship. he wants her vice versa. LEAVE THEM ALONE age is just a number! would you really do that to your own son? because if so you shouldnt be a parent you should stand by him not go the other way.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009):

I hope you realise your son is technically having sex with a minor and could end up in jail for this in the eyes of the law.if you do decide to talk to him then tell him this and he seriously needs to stop.it will be hard for you as a mother to her son but if he doesnt stop id consider telling the girls mother.however be prepared for anger and shouting but try to be calm and you are completely against it too.im worried however that the mother may tell the police and get your son arrested.

p.s i dont know what the laws are in your country so they may be different but even then you need your son to stop this so either talk to him or tell the mother.

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A female reader, maggiemay Canada +, writes (19 June 2009):

you should be talking to your son not just the 13yr old because your son should be the mature one in this situation hes 18 yrs old hes legally an adult now he should know right from wrong

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