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He is rude and mean and in love with somebody else

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Question - (20 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have this friend.. And he is, well Just to get down to my point. Full on Emo. But I love him! (: I am the COMPLETE Opposite from him. But, we're like best friends:) -- I don't know wether my feelings for him, Are more then a friend. I want to fall for him. And Honestly He can be rude, Mean And hurts my feelings a lot. I have talked to him about it many times. But nothing seems to be working. And i think that's part of why I won't let myself fall for him. but it's not gonna last very long! :/ Any Advise???

And He is in love with this one girl. Who has moved, and lives very far away now. He would do anything for her. He doesn't get the chance to see her that often Because, she lives so far away. he hasn't seen her in about 2 months now. And it's killing him... Just recent she dumped her boyfriend for him, and told him that she loves him, A lot! And that made him soooo Happy! And that's what he wanted! I am really happy for him! BUT HE WILL NOT BE FULLY HAPPY, IF HE IS NOT WITH HER. And All I want is for him to be happy!!

Any Advise??? Thanks! 3

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010):

Advice, yes...see a professional counselor that can couch you to love yourself more. Until you can figure out why you would want someone who treats you so badly, you should stay single!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010):

my advice is you to forget about becoming partners with him, it won't happen, he is mean to you. Get real

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2010):

Well, you're a nice girl. But your love is completely wasted on him. He's rude, mean to you and you've spoken to him about it and nothing has changed. That's not a friend. You would do better to pull away from him.

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