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writes:My ex and I have had a rocky relationship. We have fought, gone days without talking and have come back to each other several times in the 4 months of dating. Most of the fighting had been because of me and the issues I had because of the reputation i heard he had in the past. But he never acted the way people said he was with me and used to fight for me to stay. Recently he hasnt been. I have been slowly losing him but I wanted to make sure this time that I would treat him right. When I thought things were getting better the past week, he broke it off and he said this time he knows for sure it wont work. But heres what was the last straw for him...i recently gave him oral and the next day my throat was feeling weird. It wasnt until a few days later that I told him how i was feeling that I was worried that it could be something. He told me everything will be ok. But then he called me later on and broke it off with me. He said that I look him as if he has a disease and he doesnt. He got really offended that I had insinuated that I thought he may have something. I tried to tell him that it wasnt him and that I would worry with anyone and he said that someday ill find someone who I wont worry if they have something. He completely crushed me. He has been spiteful in the past and I am hoping that he will get over this, realize he made a mistake, and call me. He had told me that he would call me back the other day and talk and he never did. He didnt answer my texts either. He has done this before tho. He has gone a couple days and then contacted me again. But I dont know what to do. I love him and I want him back. We had broken it off the week before and didnt talk for 4 days and then he came back to me, was all paranoid asking if I had gone on any dates with anyone, and then told me he missed me and wanted to make sure it was going to work this time and then he breaks it off over this. Do you think he is just mad and is getting back at me, and will eventually call me again, or do you think he really means it this time?
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reader, mylassie10 +, writes (16 May 2010):
mylassie10 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey, I completely agree with what your saying Soon567. I think i know deep down inside that I need to get over it but I remember how it used to be when we didnt fight and how he treated me well in the beginning and I just wanted it to go back that way. He has also been my first for some things but I am still a virgin and I thank God I didnt lose it to him. I just keep thinking about the potential we could have had and how much I love spending time with him when we are getting along. I also want closure. I feel very uncomfortable ending it this way but I'm not going to go out of my way to contact him. It just kills me thinking he could be out there meeting other girls. I would be crushed to see him with someone else and it is very possible to run into him again. I was a little confused by what you had said when you said that he was concerned if I had gone on any dates with anyone. Did you mean that he doesnt want me to find anyone so he knows I'll always be here if he decides he wanted to come back to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): It's a bit hard to say because the two of you seem to have a complicated relationship.
There is indeed the chance that maybe that was the last straw but who knows, maybe he does come back. Either way the both of you need to sort out your issues.
Let some time pass and see what happens.
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