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female
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36-40,
*abyb
writes:I need help. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years we lived together for a year in my student house then I moved back in with my parents. We have split up many times and he has cheated on me in the past but always comes begging for forgiveness. He has said to me that he loves me but sometimes feels like were trying to flog a dead horse with our relationship but is really bad at expressing why. I don't know what this means and whether I should end it before he does later on in the relationship especially if we settle down together then he ends it? I truly love him though and am so upset to think it may be over.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (15 August 2007):
 Just because he keeps coming back does not mean you take him back.
You are both addicted to the drama of this relationship, and neither one of you is going to find your ideal partners if you waste time with each other like this.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): This guy sounds charming! By saying he feels like you are 'trying to flog a dead horse' with your relationship, he's basically saying that he's with you just because 'he is' and that he doesn't feel you are worth anything substantial as a couple. That's pretty nasty. Plus, he's cheated on you repeatedly. Is this what you always dreamt of when you were little? Is this what you want for your life? My advice is to end it with this guy and move on. You say you still love him, but once you set yourself free and get your self confidence back, you'll wonder what you ever saw in him!
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