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anonymous
writes:i have never given a bowjob and i am scared that i will do t wrong and my boyfriens has asked me to give him and i am scared if i say no he think i dnt like him any more what do u thnk i should do ? Reply to this Question |
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reader, sexi suga +, writes (30 October 2008):
do it only if you want to... dont do anything you are uncomfortable though tell him that youve never done it and tell him your worries and insecurites... but turn it into a joke....
thats what i did with mine i was like o ive never done it before teach me how do i do it lolwhat do i do what do u like ask questions and EXPLOREEE and EXPERIMENT LOL its the most fun
but dont forget do it only if you want to and if you feel that its right...
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reader, anonymous1776  +, writes (30 October 2008):
If he likes or loves you enough he will understand that you do not want to engage in such sexual activities.
Hope that helps.
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reader, icelordess + ♥, writes (30 October 2008):
 First of all dear, you don't sound at all comfortable about this. Don't do something that you aren't ready to do, just because someone wants you to do it. Do it because you truly want to, dont allow yourself to be pushed into anything.If your guy is a good guy, he'll understand and won't force you. If he tries to force you or make you feel badly, then don't stay with him. That's not what sex is about! Sex should be pleasurable to BOTH parties. If you are just nervous or apprehensive, look at the advice some of the others have given. Best advice I can give is to tell him the truth that you don't know what to do, and could he tell you, show you what he wants? 99.9% of guys will be happy to help you out there. And, again, like the others said..make sure he does something for you in return. That's only fair.
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reader, saltwater +, writes (30 October 2008):
 Hey there
MaggieMay is totally right. Giving sexual acts to someone does not prove anything...least of all whether you "like him."
You should say that you are not ready...because you clearly don't sound ready. And if he accuses you of not liking him, then he isn't the right person for you.
Sex and sexual acts are an expression of love, not something you do just to show your boyfriend that you "like him."
Have respect for yourself.
Take care
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (30 October 2008):
 here is a website or two that can give you some tips on what to do if you want to give him one good luck aphexy xx http://sexuality.about.com/od/tipstechniques/ht/give_a_handjob.htm
http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): tell him you are not ready. you are young. if you start doing things just to make men happy now, you will have a lot of problems in relationships down the road.
Be assertive. Have respect for yourself. Be an equal partner if every relationship you have.
Most guys are attracted to women who stand up for themselves, not women who bow down and do whatever it takes to avoid being alone.
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