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writes:am 18, he is 18 as well we have been dating for five and half months now but i do not love him as much as i did before. i want to dump him, but i do not know how. besides i want to leave him for the guy who is his flesh and blood family member that i dated before him. what should i do? i need serious help. please my people out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very big my sweetheart, hope it will work this time. and am wishing you a lot of blessings throughout your life..time...........
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (31 October 2008):
Hiyah, well look if he's said he loves you and wants to give it another go you have to end it with your current guy before it gets to messy. If it's really love then don't let it go but you have to go the right way about it. It'll take time to adjust and a lot of changes will have to be made so be prepared for it.if you're both in it together then I suggestyou go for it but like I said before, be gentle and explain your actions honestly to him. Best of luck in your future hun xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks my dear gal(shiraz) but the fact is am so in love with my ex and he confessed it to me last night and he begged me to give him a second chance.
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reader, shiraz +, writes (30 October 2008):
hiyah its never going to turn out well and this situation will always start a mess. but you have to tell yourself if you really want this its going to get worse before it gets better.
be straight with him, by being completely honest with him hell have more respect and hopefully more understanding towards your actions however nobody can predict how he will react as this is a different sort of break up. so do it gentely but reminding yourself it needs to be done.
you seem to be set on this idea and im not one to judge, yet you say your in love i think the best thing for you is to get out altogether, leave the family well alone, thats just my advice that i think will cause less heartach, tears and pain.
i cannot decide for you how to dump someone espically for there own family memeber its really hard and your taking a risk however youve dated him before so it may not come as such a shock given your history...
you say you dont love him as much as before but when you try to tell him this dont be as blunt as i think its going to really hurt him, come as a big shock.
best of luck in your descion hope all goes well (Not the best advice but its a tricky situation, sorry) x
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