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He has all the symptoms of a narcissistic/sociopath! So I need good tips on how to stay clear of this ex bf!

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Question - (13 January 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2008)
A female United States age , *heilae writes:

I recently broke off with my ex-boyfriend of 7 years of what I would describe as the relationship from hell, I have recently learned that he has all the symptoms of a narcissistic/sociopath, etc. Any advise to stay clear of him would be greatly appreciated.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008):

Hi Love

Have you got a victim support group where you live? As they helped me so much, They were there for me anytime at the end of the phone if I was down or my ex was making his usual nasty phone calls e.t.c I to went through a sim thing with physical and mental abuse. You need to find a help line and group as this did not stop for me even when I got divorced I needed help with injunctions to stop him from any contact and coming anywere near me or my children, It is really important that you seek advice as on your down days you are most vunerable I do hope this has helped a little good luck to you sweetheart with love and peace MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, sheilae United States +, writes (14 January 2008):

sheilae is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I am not living with him (thank god) but have in the past, but if he was mad he would lock me out, destroyed my property, insulted me constantly with disparing remarks, calls me a whore, insist that all I do is go out and perform fellatio acts on everyone, stole from me, caught him spiking my drinks with drugs, has sodomized me, cheated on me, spread horrible rumors, never supported my achievements only said I would fail. The more I realize this, the more sicken I am by the thoughts of this man, but my fear is that the depression may weaken me to seek him out or go back.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008):

Hi Love,

A little more info would help You havent really said much. Narcissistic/sociopaths have the inability or are unwilling to control there impulses and form relationships also have total disregard for others in society, not unlike psychopaths but this is a different illness as I was married to a psychopath. I would most definatly stay clear move on get some help for yourself and contact victim support for that help love they can offer you so much good advise, Consentrate on you and get all the help and advise as you can, Hope this helped a little TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (14 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntIt seems that your question is abit vague. You broke off with your ex and are you still staying with him or you are separated from him?

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