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I'm 16, he's 31 and I met him online. Should I meet him?

Q.   Hey im 16 i have been talking to this guy online for a few months. To start with i didnt knw his age n he didnt know mine. I recently found out he's 31 he thought i was about 19 but now knows im 16. We both like eachother but know it would be kinda...

A.   15 January 2008: Please do not meet this man, it would be extremely dangerous. A 31 year old man has no business chatting with a 16 year old. I don't know what the laws are in England, but here in America it is against the law. I'm sorry but he maybe a predator. ... (read in full...)

He feels like I'm playing him but I'm really not. What can I do??

Q.   Well i'm kind of in an awkward situation, my boyfriend is in jail and has been for a few months now but ever since new years hes been assuming things and accusing me of playing him and making him look like a fool, but in reality i work, go to ...

A.   15 January 2008: well i agree with anonymous, you did not say what he was in jail for, but I wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt. It's very sadden why people end up in this situation, if it is something minor then I understand your supporting him but if ... (read in full...)

He feels like I'm playing him but I'm really not. What can I do??

Q.   Well i'm kind of in an awkward situation, my boyfriend is in jail and has been for a few months now but ever since new years hes been assuming things and accusing me of playing him and making him look like a fool, but in reality i work, go to ...

A.   15 January 2008: well i agree with anonymous, you did not say what he was in jail for, but I wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt. It's very sadden why people end up in this situation, if it is something minor then I understand your supporting him but if ... (read in full...)

He has all the symptoms of a narcissistic/sociopath! So I need good tips on how to stay clear of this ex bf!

Q.   I recently broke off with my ex-boyfriend of 7 years of what I would describe as the relationship from hell, I have recently learned that he has all the symptoms of a narcissistic/sociopath, etc. Any advise to stay clear of him would be greatly ...

A.   14 January 2008: I am not living with him (thank god) but have in the past, but if he was mad he would lock me out, destroyed my property, insulted me constantly with disparing remarks, calls me a whore, insist that all I do is go out and perform fellatio acts on ... (read in full...)

My ex bf is displaying a lot of signs of a sociopath/serial bully, Does he need help or is this just his personality?

Q.   I have known my ex off and on since childhood and I am becoming increasingly worried about him. He is displaying alot of the hallmarks of a sociopath/serial bully, and I wonder if he get help for this or if this is his personality. I really don't...

A.   13 January 2008: Yes he does need help and no this is not his personality. I too subjected myself in awful relationship 7 years on and off too too long. I always knew something was wrong with him but until I became better acquainted with the signs or symptoms of a ... (read in full...)

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