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writes: A guy friend of mine who i used to have a casual thing with recently got a new girlfriend so we obviously had to go back to just being friends. The thing is i told him i'm seeing somebody now and now everytime we talk on facebook or whatever he brings it up. Always asking things like "do i see this new guy as boyfriend material" and things like that. He still flirts with me all the time even though has a girlfriend now and when i last saw him we nearly ended up having sex. He's adament he just wants to be friends but i'm just curious as to why he's suddenly asking about who i'm dating and is he my boyfriend, i mean he has a girlfriend now so what's it got to do with him who i'm seeing?
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reader, OhGetReal  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 Dirtball has it right, this guy is just wanting to have a little harem, he's a bit narcissistic and can't stand that you don't still want him so much that you don't care if he tells you he has a girlfriend. He's an emotional retard, stay away from him, seriously...he's bad news....he sounds like he is rather manipulative, it's none of his business who you are dating now or what the status of your relationship is, you just make it clear the casual "thing" between you has gotta stop, end of.Instead of making it a habit of analyzing what a guy says to you, pay attention to his behavior. He's with another girl and he is trying to still get into your pants as well, his words, his questions mean nothing about his feelings for you, it has everything to do with his actions.He's playing you.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (17 August 2010):
 Who cares? If he's mad at you for living your life, then to hell with him. He's with another girl. Plain and simple. He shouldn't care what you're doing, other than in a friendly nature, and if he was a friend, he would be happy for you. He's a player who just lost one of his fuck buddies, so he's sulking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI told him i was just casually dating when he asked, he then asked if it could be serious, i said i didn't know. He went offline and haven't heard from him in over a week, maybe he's mad at me.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (17 August 2010):
He's concerned about your dating status because he thinks he can still have sex with you, and he knows that will be a lot harder for him if you're in a relationship. This guy is bad news. I think you should just stay away. Who knows, his GF could be one of the girls on here right now wondering if her BF is cheating because he's too close to a female friend...
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFunny thing is, before he got with his girlfriend i told him i wanted more but he said he wasn't looking for anything serious with me, that's why i'm curious that he's interested in who i'm seeing as to me he didn't seem to want more than sex from me when we used to have our casual thing going.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (17 August 2010):
He sounds like he wanted something more with you, but wouldn't admit it to you or himself. Frankly what he's doing now is being a player. I feel really bad for his GF because he doesn't care about her if he's still pursuing you. She's likely someone who he can use to fulfill his sexual needs of the moment. I'd probably avoid him completely. You're right that it shouldn't matter to him anymore your relationship status because he shouldn't be looking.
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