A
female
age
30-35,
*-Wag_08
writes:hey this is Taylor well my question is ..... i have been talking to this guy for a while and we have been messin around for a long time and he just got a girlfriend not to long ago. he didnt tell me about it until later on but i tried to refuse to like mess with him or what ever but that didnt work. he tellz me he loves me and he wants to be with me but hes in love with her and if he wasnt with her he would be with me .. but we are still messin around (i feel really bad b cuz i kno her and we are cool,, we are friends and stuff) but n/e ways my quetion is if he loves her why is he still messin with me and telling me all these crazy things ya know. I feel like a real whore but i love him and just cant let him go please help me?? oh yeah and we are talkin about having sex soon what do i do?!? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 January 2008):
 You feel like a whore because he is treating you like a whore. If you don't like that feeling then tell him to look you up when he can treat you with the respect you deserve. If you don't mind feeling like a whore then keep on being his piece on the side. You control your life.
A
male
reader, dapone 1  +, writes (22 January 2008):
 hi Taylor.
It sounds to me that he want the best part of both worlds, he wants a g/f and want to use you for his sexual pleasure, think you need to talk to him, and tell him that your not going to be used in this way.
He has used you because he chose another girl and is involved with you, plus the fact he did not inform you of his g/f until a later date, you really need to wise up about this guy, I am sorry to say that he cannot love you or you would be his g/f not the other person.
You really deserve better than the way he is treating you, if he loved you then he would not treat you in this manner, it is time you stood up for yourself, and tell him you do not want to be used in this way, he should make his mind up if he wants you or the other girl, if he cannot then he is using you both, for your own peace of mind, do not engage in any sexual activity with him .unless he drops his g/f and chooses you, but because he is already cheating on you, i do not think you could ever trust him again, because he will only play away behind your back.
when a person deceives another person which he has done to you, then i am afraid he will never change and will continue to do so as long as you will let him get away with it,think its time you found some one else who will love you for you and not use you for there own twisted pleasure.
...............................
|
