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I am trapped in this marriage!

Q.   i am married for 3 n half years and hv a 7mnth old son. On several occassions my husband beat me up and forced on me. B4 having baby he made me undergo pregnancy termination twice and md me pregnant recently by forcing sex without protection bt i ...

A.   18 September 2010: You don't have to be docile. there is no point in suffering quietly if your husband acts unreasonably assualting you both mentally and physically. as the other answerer said talk to your step mom and dad about your situation. can you work again? i... (read in full...)

I'm awkward with conversations, so how do I talk to this guy?

Q.   Ok, so I have absolutely no dating knowledge, even though I'm 18. I'm a shy and timid thing, and to be honest, I'm not the best looking thing (and I'm not trying to be humble or modest, I'm just telling the truth). There's this guy who works various ...

A.   18 September 2010: No, it is not modest to walk up to someone who has not shown any interest to you and give your number. maybe,just ask around about him without arousing much suspiscions about the guy if you are really persistent about him. you would like to know ... (read in full...)

Have a bf but attracted to another guy, how do I forget the other guy?

Q.   im in a relationship since 3 years. i love my boyfriend he means a lot to me and i could never do anything to hurt him. But.. There is this guy that im opsessed about since 2 years (pretty much time huh??) when i dont see him i aforget that he ...

A.   18 September 2010: it is just attraction towards the opposite sex. i too have that at times. sometimes i get obsesses with some nice people whom i meet everyday while jogging or in the gym... lol, i had that with my swimming instructor. i used to adore the way he swam ... (read in full...)

I asked a coworker out and was turned down, now I feel awkward around her! Should I carry on as if nothing happened?

Q.   Hi guys I wonder if you can help me. About three months ago I started a new job and started working with this lovely women who I got on with really well. We would share jokes with each other and have general conversations about everyday stuff. ...

A.   18 September 2010: Embarrassing, is it not? I don't think you have read the signals wrong from what your description. I don't think your asking her out was stupid either. It is natural for you to do so! I have had occasions where men gave me signals and eventual... (read in full...)

Gym teacher and "gazes"

Q.   So it's about my gym trainer. We don't talk or anything,not really and some may go ''well why are u asking this question '' but....he gives me gazes. I consider myself a pretty girl and the odd thing is he doesn't talk to me at all ( he talks to ...

A.   17 September 2010: Yuuueeiii... Sounds romantic to me. Just watch for more signals if he is flirting around with you in his own as the girls are already faning aorund him while you are not. Meanwhile, have fun flirting! :)... (read in full...)

I don't want to make his parents angry but we love eachother!

Q.   There's this guy I've known mainly on Facebook for about 6 months. He's 17 and i'm 18.His parents saw me talking to him and scolded him badly for it and forbade him to talk to me again. i don't understand why. however, he still keeps in touch with ...

A.   17 September 2010: Teens are tempestuous times. So maybe his parents just wanted to make sure you guys don't end up in anothing bad and risky! And he is only 17! At such a young age it is mostly infatuation and you usually grow out of it. So take it easy with his ... (read in full...)

Can you be in love even though you have not met?

Q.   hi am 18 years old and i met a man for several months we do chatting and we fell in-love with each other I do not know but i am in-love or not? i break up with my bf and told my suitors i have found him, i did not meet him yet in person i feel ...

A.   17 September 2010: You can certainly fall in love at any age at any circumstance at all times and I also feel with any number of persons (except that some would be matured love and other immature). Remember, love is blind? Online love is quite possible and plausibl... (read in full...)

My husband used to make me cry but now I'm interested in a co-worker, is that right?

Q.   i'm 21year old girl.. and also married.. my husband is not so good in behavior.. he always hurts me a lot... and i always use to cry and cry and cry.... but nowadays m not thinking about that thing much also m not crying.. because I feel like i l...

A.   17 September 2010: It is natural for aplant to grow in the direction of sunlight. Married women who have some hiccups in their married life often find relief in relationships outside of it. Definitely, it is not right to have an extra marital affair irrespective of ... (read in full...)

How accurate is the first response home pregnancy test?

Q.   My girlfriend and I were afraid that she could be pregnant so she took a first response pregnancy test. She took it 4 days after she was supposed to have her period and it turned out negative. She is now 6 days late and recently moved to another ...

A.   15 September 2010: Yeah, they should be accurate. Taking a blood test would help.... (read in full...)

Why can't I conceive yet?

Q.   hi i and the coil in for 4 years and i got it took out last tuesday this month i had intercourse wit my husband and he came and i done the test on monday but it came back negative can you tell mewhat the problem could be that i can't conceive yet ...

A.   15 September 2010: Conception is not easy when you want it. very rarely does it happen in the first month of trial. You need to ry for at least 12 months before you start worrying about it. Are you following the fertile dates? ... (read in full...)

My parents have always treated me poorly, preferring my sister to me. Time to walk away?

Q.   All the time I was growing up my parents made no secret of the fact my younger sister was the preferred child. From the day she was born they compared us, always to my detriment. Everyone was told that I’d been a horrible baby, forever crying a...

A.   14 September 2010: I don't know what to say. I am not a parent yet. But I would dare say that some parents do prefer one child over another for no reason at all. I have no personal experience but I have had two men complain it of their parents. One of them is an elder ... (read in full...)

Why did he just drop me?

Q.   hi, i had a long distance relation,with this guy.we meet on a social networking site,we use to talk everyday atleast 4-5hrs on net and afterwards on calls also.so he was a part of my life in past 3yrs.i was very close to him emotionaly.but from pas...

A.   14 September 2010: He is not interested anymore. Its because he may have realised that it is not going to work forever. Please realise that he HAS NOT become a PART of your life. He has become a HABIT for you. I say this because I have had a lot of online crushes in ... (read in full...)

HE has a facebook account but doesn't want me to have one!!!

Q.   My boyfriend of a year and 7 months has a facebook account but doesn't want me to have one. We have trust issues. Is that like fair? Is it right of him to do that? I dont talk to any of my friends anymore because of our trust issues and i think it ...

A.   14 September 2010: What's with FB everyone? I totally agree with Honeypie. But I have had friends whose husbands wouldn't allow online social networking at all. And I know another lady in her 30's whose husband asked her to be cautious while having an FB account. S... (read in full...)

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