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writes:i am at school and am gay, i never noticed this guy really before even though i have been at school with him for over 10 years, and then one day i was sat by him in class and suddenley realised i like him. it started off me just being interested and now i wouldnt say im obsessed but i really really like him a lot, he is straight and he is the most hottest guy i have ever seen in my life! i do P.E with him and always find myself watching him get changed and always fantasise about him and long to be with him.It was making me feel really low so i spoke to my friend about it and then she told another friend and the next day everybody knew i liked him including the guy himself. i feel really bad because he has had a bit of a hard time for it from his friends and its my fault, its a shame it had to come to this cos i wasnt trying to offend him. i think it has died down a bit now and he doesnt seen to have a problem and still sits by me in class and talks to me but its really awkward because of what has happened. now its died down i want to talk to him or write to him to explain and appolagise for what has happened because i can understand how he must have felt, i dont know what to say to him, can anybody help me? Reply to this Question
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reader, der_zyniker  +, writes (2 December 2010):
The truth is you have nothing to be sorry for. You did nothing wrong. But if you are worried about things being awkward between you two then don't bring it up. That will only make things more awkward. I know that you feel bad about what happened, but it's not your fault. He seems to be a good guy and I don't think he holds anything against you. I would just leave it alone unless he brings it up.
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reader, AgonyAuntiee93 +, writes (1 December 2010):
Well say this;
Hey, urmm, this is hard. Im really sorry for getting you into this mess, i know that you are straight, and we will never be together, but i want to know if you will forgive me. I am so sorry, you were never ment to find out like this, its just that i told my best friend for advice and she told all her mates and it got out of control. Well, you are a good looking bloke and im sure that whatever girl gets you, appreciates you. Again, im so sorry, and i hope we can be mates after all this.
Or something like that?
Hopee i helped?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (1 December 2010):
 There's nothing you can do at this point. Don't say anything about it, don't bring it up. The only reason I think you want to apologize is that you want an excuse to talk. The best thing you can do is just leave it alone. If he wanted to talk about it, he'd bring it up. If it somehow does come up, you can apologize for it causing him trouble. But the best thing you can do is just be friendly. Clearly it's not a huge deal or he'd stop sitting next to you and he definitely wouldn't be talking to you.
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