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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone.Im sort of unofficially dating this guy. We're at the 'getting to know each other' stage, so we're not going out just yet.Im 19 and he's 23. I've known him since January but he's always been just a friend (but we always sort of liked each other but nothing happened up until September).Anyways, i started university in september and he had been asking to see me throughout the whole of summer but to be honest i was always pretty nervous, then he asked to see me before i moved into my uni halls and i agreed.I went to see him at his house, and he ended up kissing me and he told me he had liked me for a while which i had already known.I've only seen him two times since that day but he didn't kiss me, but we text every single day and he's told me he misses me and ive told him i miss him as well because we haven't see each other in over a month... We've just both been busy, he works and im at uni, so there's only the weekends to meet but it doesn't always work out. I have been hurt in the past, and i have a slight fear of relationships (i've never had a boyfriend before but i've had bad experiences with guys in the past) but he seems to be really genuine and honest.Now i'm more than sure he likes me because we talk and have planned to meet up this weekend again but I may have to attend a friends birthday so i'm not too sure if i'll be able to see him.The only real concern of mine is, why didn't he kiss me if he kissed me the first time i saw him again?If he talks to me every single day and has met up with me twice after and tells me he enjoys my company and wants to see more of me, why not kiss me?The 3rd time i saw him he was joking around, asked me if i wanted a kiss and as a joke i said 'Lol no who told you that?' and when i spoke to him via text he felt like he needed to ask me for my permission to kiss me even though he did so the first time.It's still at the back of my mind. Recently he even started calling me babe/baby which he never did before, so I dunno, what do you guys think?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 November 2011):
 He likes you that is clear. Maybe he is unsure that you want him to kiss you. He doesn't want to over step the mark. My guess is that he can see how nervous you are and he does not want to make you feel uncomfortable. If you meet up with him well then why do you not surprise him and kiss him. He will love it believe me. Sometimes it is good for a girl to take control as well. He made the first move kissing you, so maybe he is waiting to see if you will return the favour and do the same.
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