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writes: He dumped me by text...after his ex has been messing with his head. he says there is no point meeting up, that its too early and it wont achieve anything! i have deleted his number, but i want to meet in person am i asking too much?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (15 March 2006):
 Forget this spinless bloke, anyone who ditches you other than face to face is just not worthy of your attention.
He has made it very clear it is over and he is not interested so just keep hold of your pride and leave him alone.
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reader, d4u04 +, writes (15 March 2006):
 1st of all if he dumped you by text that is very disrespectful and pathetic. And if his ex was messing with his head and he believed her while going out with you the relationship was doomed anyway as my belief is relationships are based on trust, no trust, no nothing.
A want to meet in person is not too much to ask but I would advise against it, because if you did get back together for example, who's to say his ex wouldn't do it again and he wouldn't believe her again?
Move on darling, I'm sure its for the best.
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reader, Strumpet +, writes (15 March 2006):
No you're not asking too much!! Being dumped by text is very insensitive of him... the least you deserve is a proper explanation about why he's come to the decision he has. It's the cowardly way out.
Maybe he doesn't want to see you because 1) he doesn't want to see how hurt you are or 2) he thinks it might make it harder for you both. You said his ex has been messing with his head, so he's probably all over the place at the moment and needs some time alone.
I know it's really hard for you at the moment. If you don't get a chance to see him in person, how about writing a nice letter? That way you can make sure you say everything you're feeling, and he can deal with things at his own pace.
Good luck x
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