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He dumped me, but says he doesn't want to lose me!

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Question - (20 June 2010) 12 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *ediscko13 writes:

Well...I just got dumped and was with the guy for almost a year it wouldve been a year next month on the 16 :( but me and him still keep in touch he tells me he loves me..I say the same but he tells me that he feels like i'm getting hurt to much by him but also says he don't wanna lose me...what should I do?..

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A female reader, Lediscko13 United States +, writes (21 June 2010):

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Lediscko13 agony auntSo should i just try to get over him because thats just very tough..?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2010):

Just cut all contact. Why would you want to play hard to get with a guy like this? Let him clear off.

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (21 June 2010):

xanthic agony auntCut off all contact. What's the point in playing hard to get?

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A female reader, Lediscko13 United States +, writes (21 June 2010):

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Lediscko13 agony auntAlright I hope so..if he were to text me or contact should I respond to him? Or let him suffer and me play hard to get?..=]

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2010):

Of course you'll find someone better. You'll find many guys who are a lot better than him.

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A female reader, Lediscko13 United States +, writes (21 June 2010):

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Lediscko13 agony auntOmg yeah exactly well now I just gotta try and move on but caringguy ur such a big help! Thx soooo much I just hope I find someone better...especially if I'm like all in love..

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2010):

Well, doesn't that just say it all? His whole response says everything you need to know about him. What a jackass. He can't just dump you then get huffy when you move on. Make a promise to yourself never to allow a man like this into your life again.

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A female reader, Lediscko13 United States +, writes (21 June 2010):

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Lediscko13 agony auntWell he jus ende our friendship just because I said I'm not gonna beg and crawl on my hands an knees to take him back so he told me fuck friends let's not talk anymore and now chances are we might not get backtogether ..:(

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2010):

I really wouldn't waste time if I were you. His bitchiness might not go away at all.

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A female reader, Lediscko13 United States +, writes (20 June 2010):

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Lediscko13 agony auntOmg thx caring guy that's alot of help but stilll love him is that wrong I mean he still talks to me like if we were goin out but doesn't want anything bad to happen like me find another guy and just wait for his bitchyness to go away but thx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2010):

End it and make it clear you don't want him in your life. You're Plan B. If he doesn't get someone else, he'll just come back to you and use you until he does. You can do better. After all, if he did care about you, he would still be with you. He's not worth another moment of your time.

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (20 June 2010):

xanthic agony auntIn saying that, it's clear he's hoping you'll stick around as a backup while he's free to see other girls. If he really loved you and didn't want to lose you, he wouldn't have dumped you.

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