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writes:Hi CupidMy bf broke up with me yesterday, it hurts like hell. I just wanted to die. The reason for break up he said is he moved on and has met an younger girl (im older than him) who is cute and has good boobs. I cant believe the reason he told me for break up. I couldnt do anything today. I am in complete mess. Not sure whether i want him back or not. Not sure what i should do now.
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (13 May 2010):
 Found another boyfriend yet? I hope so. Life is too short not to have someone to have sex with.
Hopefully, the next guy will be more mature than me, or the previous guy.
All jokes aside, we just want you to know that you sound like a really nice person, and you have nothing to be ashamed of. You didn't do anything wrong.
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reader, Trnava  +, writes (10 May 2010):
He has probably met someone who he likes better but he will maybe realize later that she is not as good as you were. Right now he is impressed by boobs and I do not know what else (my bf loves big breats and likes to look at women who have them, I have small ones, so I know how it feels like) so he is probably in love with her appearance. Unfortunately for him, when he realizes she is otherwise boring, it will be too late to win you back. Do not take him back. I know it is difficult and you love him, love hurts, but he is not worth it. I wish you good luck, move on soon!
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (10 May 2010):
 Any man who dumps you for another woman and then asks you to be the 'other' woman is truly a jerk.
Don't fall for the 'staying friends' thing either, it's almost impossible when a relationship breaks down. He is actually being quite cruel and mean to you. I don't think there is any other reason for him ending things with you, other than he's met someone he likes better.
It's time to forget him and move on.
Sorry hun!!!
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reader, asmadd +, writes (10 May 2010):
asmadd is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the support. Before we started dating we were good friends. Now he says we can be just friends nothing more and have lost interest in me and have moved on. He talked to me till saturday as a bf and then suddenly yesterday he called me and said he has met a girl whom his friends are rotating within themselves. She is good in bed and she has big boobs and cant be loyal to me anymore. If i want i can be the other women. At first i didnt believe him, he was not the kind of person to talk in this way. I know he is trying to push me, not sure whether the reason is a valid one. I tried to reach him a couple of times today to ask the real reason, he is not giving in anything. i have sent mails to him, he says he'll read when he is not busy. I believe i need to move on. I cant control his actions. I would really like to know the real reason behind this. BTW he is an Aries male. Can someone tell me how to get the real reason for the break up
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 May 2010):
You now know that there are far better men out there. What a small minded little boy you were dating. Take your time getting over him and find a man instead. There are a lot of other, far better men out there who will want a loyal girlfriend like you. Your ex boyfriend was just a shallow, immature idiot. You can do better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2010): Wow, what a jerk.
He doesn't sound like he's looking for a real relationship anyway. I think you're probably better off without him.
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reader, bruce lee +, writes (10 May 2010):
This is a strange situation. He must be a superficial person if he broke up with you for reasons like this. You might be better off without him.
Just forget about him for now. Go out and have a coffee somewhere and try to relax. Do not think about finding another boyfriend for the next few days.
You might need time to think. I don't know exactly how you are feeling right now, but I have been hurt like this before. So, take it easy.
I am not an expert in these matters but I hope you feel a bit better in a few hours. You might need to get some rest too. It can take a lot of energy out of you when you go through an emotional upset.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (10 May 2010):
What can I say...Some men are shallow and I don't think you need to break your heart over him.
Don't let his distorted selfish ways make you feel bad about yourself. It's probably a lucky escape and if you continued with him...how are you ever going to be free to meet the wonderful man your really meant to be with. The one who appreciates you for more than just the size of your breasts?
Wipe your tears darling, move on quickly and don't waste a moment of your precious life thinking about such a loser of a man.
Aunty Em xxxxx
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