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He doesn't want sex..is it because of his mishapen penis? What should I do?

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Question - (21 August 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I'm 17 and I want to have sex with my 17 year old boyfriend but he doesn't want me going any where near his penis i found this strange and scared myself by thinking he doesn't have one, but later after walking in on him "accidently" on the toilet and well...it's (his penis) is slightly deformed i asked him about it and he won't talk about it, what can i do i really love him i don't want to leave him but i'm geting very sexually agitated.

What should i do??? any advice will do thanks x x x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006):

He is obviously just embarrassed. But surely once youve already seen it...I dont know, you just have to let him no that you have no problem with it, and arent going to think any less of him. Show him you still find him attractive. But dont push sex on him, maybe hes just not ready and is finding an excuse?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006):

Was it in fact deformed? Does it still function? If it does, what is the big deal?

You need to talk to him and reassure him.

Besides, you can still have sex without penetration.

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A female reader, Nay920 +, writes (21 August 2006):

Maybe your boyfriend wasnt curcumsized when he was a baby and he is scared that you will freak out on him because of that maybe you should talk to him about it.And every girls has needs maybe you should tell him about your sexual needs and if he is not willing to give it to you than maybe you should go.Unless you really care and your willng to stay with him than you should stay with him.

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