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Everyone expects us to marry, but I can't stand sex with him anymore!

Q.   i have been dating this guy for 15 years, everbody is expecting us to get married, my problem is sex is no longer pleasurable with him, i cant even bear him touching me and am thinking of how to make sex pleasurable....

A.   2 September 2009: I think that you have reached your saturation point with this man and you can't take anymore. Even if everybody is expecting you to get married to him, this does not mean that you should please these people and marry him. It's your life anyway. If ... (read in full...)

I slept with him, but is he still interested?

Q.   Slept with him, but is he interested? I recently met a guy i get on really well with. I have seen him 3 times over a period of 2 months as he works away a lot. We keep in touch through email and occassional texts, but thats it. I dont want to be ...

A.   1 September 2009: What I see from your story is that you are in love with this guy and will be more and more in love with him as you continue to see each other. I think you are over reacting and over analysing like many women have the tendency to. Take this ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has premature ejaculation problems, and a small penis. Should I break up with him?

Q.   Girls: does your boyfriend have premature ejaculation? Mine (who is 25) only last seconds in bed, in fact sometimes he's cum before I've taken his shorts down (I can feel the wet through his pants) or even as I'm putting it in - its depressing and ...

A.   1 September 2009: Maybe he has no good experience with sex and he is too excited. To be honest, no matter what other women says, PENIS SIZE do make a difference!!! I've experienced both and I prefered the longer one. If he cannot satisfy you sexually, then I don't ... (read in full...)

He doesn't mind pleasuring me on my period!!!

Q.   When I'm on my period, I feel digusting and fat and yucky even if I'm not and some of the time I totally do not feel like having sex. But my boyfriend insists he pleasures me orally and I'm suprised he doesn't find it disgusting that I'm on my ...

A.   2 July 2009: I can't believe what I am reading, there are some men who are really disgusting to practice oral sex while their girlfriend is having her menses. I don't believe that a girl has more pleasure during her menses because her hormones levels are low ... (read in full...)

Pornorgraphy against Religion!

Q.   Hi I'm having trouble with my boyfriend watching porn. Sometimes when i can't satisfy him myself he wants to watch porn... I feel like he's cheating on me when he does this because he's looking at other women (prettier than me might I add) and it h...

A.   2 July 2009: you say you are a christian but why are you practicing formication with your boyfriend? When it comes to pornographic films, you are a christian but when it comes to having sex you do not mind you are a christian. If your boyfriend watches porno, ... (read in full...)

My wife is having an affair, she refuses to attend counselling...help?

Q.   About a week ago I found out my wife was having an affair. We had been married for 24 years and had lived together prior to this for a further 3 years since we were 19. I found out from txts on her phone, she admitted it straight away but said she ...

A.   2 July 2009: Your wife admitted that she loved the other man more than you, it means that she prefers other man and you do not seem to interest him anymore. If she breaks up with the man with whom she is currently having an affair, this does not mean that she ... (read in full...)

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