A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my current for almost 2 years after several years of friendship. My issue is that we have very little to no contact..i mean kisses and hugs are it we enter the relationship knowing of each others desires and limitation. I am very sexual and she is not at all. We both encountered sexual abuse during our childhood, I was in her shoes for many years but when i let go i discovered a new expressive me. she on the other hand places it on the back burner never to be talked about until i have to talk about it. I feel guilty anymore to even bring it up, i have only brought it up three times since we started going out. i feel so selfish yet when it is time for me to have my needs fulfilled as well. She just really has no sexual desire at all and when she tries to it back fires and she crawls back into her shell so what Am I to do with all of this? Reply to this Question |
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