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He cried his eyes out and I felt sorry for him. Now I've found out it was all a sham! What can I do?

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Question - (16 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

The father of my child cried his eyes out which I felt sorry for him. Come to find out today, all of that was an act to see what he can get out of me. This man is up to something. He's hit rock bottom, going from woman to woman (trying to get over me, needing the feeling of an companion around) and having my daughter in the environment showing her it's okay, she's only 18 months. Every time my daughter comes home, she's acting strange as if her father has done something to her.

About a month ago, I was going thru a rough (maybe still going on) child custody battle with him because of his threats, lies and abuse he's given towards me and around our daughter. The judge thru out the restraining order however, because the judge doesn't feel he's not going to take my daughter out of state, in which I he's threaten me on several different occassion of doing so. Now, I am on my tippy toes, looking over my shoulders, etc. This is not healthy at all for my daughter.

What should I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007):

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I went back to work unfortunately, the judge didn't see he would do something like but I do. He is not the one in a relationship with him for two and half years, I was. The judge also thru out both of the restraining orders I placed on him in which helped out a lot, keeping him away, not hearing his threats and his continuious verbal threats. Enough is enough.

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (17 June 2007):

DrPsych agony auntGo back to court and ask for supervised visitation. He probably should have access to his daughter but perhaps it would be better in a family centre where he cannot run off with her.

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