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writes:I joined a new company and I was instantly attracted to a colleague and he seemed to be attracted to me too. At first there was alot of flirty office banter between the two of us and we didn't necessarily hide it. We had a few staff get togethers which would end with us paying each other alot of attention, sitting closely, chatting and generally being interested in each other. I realised I like him quite alot and wasn't sure whether he liked me too, I tried to just ignore how I felt as I discovered he was in a relationship and had children. The office flirting continued but it was also happening on a more private level too (texts, etc). I knew it was wrong to carry on because to me it was more than a bit of fun so I tried to stop it going any further by leaving the company and not keeping in touch. Recently on a random night out I met up with him and something happened, I feel soo quilty because I left to try hard to prevent it and he has a family? I'm not sure if I mean anything to him or if he was just tempted this once, took the chance that night and now forgotten about it.Should I do anything about this or forget about it myself? Can't help having feeling's for him.
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reader, pollard527 +, writes (14 December 2007):
 why does everyone blame the single person here.. it takes two you know.. i've been in a similar situation, he has a very unhappy marriage, but his wife stops him from seeing his daughter and is really nasty/bitchy whenever he leaves.. he stays for his daughter..
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reader, pollard527 +, writes (25 November 2007):
hi... im in a similar situation.. its nice to know im not alone..email me if you want
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reader, eddie  +, writes (21 November 2007):
 It was wrong, you knew it was wrong and it was selfish of you. There is nothing proper or of any value to what you did. It is rotten to do something so calculated an potentially hurtful to other people. I'm glad most people still have integrity enough not to act that way. What were you expecting to get out of this? What could you possibly want to do about this. Anything short of never seeing him again would only be another poor choice on your part.
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reader, Truthfulrealisation +, writes (21 November 2007):
You are in the wrong for getting involved with him in the first place, you should definatly not get involved with him
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): You have to forget about this. If he would cheat on his wife and kids what kind of person does that make him. Don't you think that he could easily just cheat on you??
Listen: you have to stop seeing him whenever possible so that it makes it easier for you to forget him. Find someone else - who at least is honest.
Best of luck!
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