A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:ok i met my ex b/f through the internet and i moved to the city he was studying to live together.It was the best year of my life.he was telling me all the time how much he loves me and he was showing it in many ways and promised after graduating and getting a job to get married.four months before his last exams i caught him chatting with other girls.he said that these were crap and told me not to throw everything for nothing.i believed him and suddenly one day he told me he wasnt in love anymore and he cant make me happy but saying that he loves me.it was a hard period for him due to the exams.i left the city and before he said:you will see there will be a time that i will come back begging.since then we were chatting through internet and now he avoids me.i sent him a letter telling him that i miss him and love him and he didnt say anything.he keeps contact with me for 5 minutes every now and nothing further.notice that he had an operation and he needs a month to recover.why isnt he honest?why he doesnt say clearly what he wants so that i can move on with my life?deep inside i believe he will come back to me.what do you think of all these?
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Don't send him letters, its the least he deserves. He knew fully well what he was doing when he suggested you split up and implied that he'd come back, maybe this was so he always has you to come back to when he chooses, you deserve much better than this, yes exama are a stressful time but that isn't enough of a reason to finish a relationship.Go out and meet new people that wont let you down, he isnt worth it.xxx
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