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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: ihave been dating this guy for 7 months and i love him. he is the man i want to marry. he also told me the same but just want time lately. i have been having mixed feelings about him becoz of how he is been behaving; he has changed. it's like he wants to leave me. i'm worried that he might leave me and i love him. he has introduced me to the family members. do you think he could have been playing with me all along even after letting him know that i wanted something serious? how do you tell if aguy is cheating on you? Reply to this Question
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (14 December 2006):
 I don't know if he is cheating on you or if he is playing you? I do know you aren't ready for marriage with this guy at this time in your life because you already have your doubts and it is much better to resolve them as a single lady rather than as a married one. You have to try to figure out why you don't trust him - if his behaviour has changed noticeably then perhaps he is having a change of heart. However the only way to find out is to communicate with him - after all, long lasting marriage is very much based on the ability to talk about everything and anything. There maybe other issues in his life right now that are nothing to do with the state of your relationship like work or money worries that he is preoccupied with.
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