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writes:Hi guys, I am currently dating a middle-aged man (he is 55 and I'm 34) and I would like to know how to make our conversations interesting, especially to him. For men who are in the same age bracket as him, what topics would you be interested to discuss? And have you ever WISHED your girl would ask you certain questions but she never did? What were those questions? :-) Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (9 May 2012):
 Why don't you simply ask him if there are any questions he's never been asked but would like to express? Saves a lot of trouble. It shows you are interested and open to hearing what he has to say.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 May 2012):
 Perhaps you should stop thinking of it as MEN want and figure out what HE wants as a person… I’m one of those folks that will respond to questions but often do not know what to say free-form…
Also being interested in someone is fine… but CHEMISTRY for a romance is critical.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers. I agree maybe we don't have great chemistry but we are interested in each other, just the same. I asked the question because I had a conversation once with another man, and when I asked him a certain question he was so relieved that somebody finally asked him that question. Made me think that there are things MEN want to express but hesitate unless somebody asks them the right questions. That's why I'm curious :) Hope some men will answer, too. Thanks! :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 May 2012):
Read-the-Signs gave excellent information... if you have to WORK at conversation then there is something not quite right..
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reader, Read-the-signs  +, writes (8 May 2012):
If you have great chemistry then the conversation will just flow easily. If it has to be worked on, i'd question whether you really feel comfortable together?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 May 2012):
Honey I'm 52 my fiance is 38... we talk about what interests us. I am betting that what interests your man now is the same stuff that interested him at your age...
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