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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 months now. almost 3 in feburary. recently hes been talking to me less and less when we arent together. he doesnt text me much anymore. and he doesnt ask to skype either. i confronted him about it and he told me that hes become more comfortable with me. which is great. but he also said that he hasnt felt like talking much lately and he doesnt know why. i asked him if hes still into the realationship and he said that he still wants to be in this. and after this he hasnt been talking to me unless we are in person. and he also said he doesnt want to hurt me. well this does hurt me. alot. but i dont want to be clingy and text him and bunch. i dont want to confront him all the time about it. because that will make everything worse. i hung out with him in person yesterday and it was totally normal and everything was the same. i feel like we lost that drive to want to see eachother. help please
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the answers. i thought adding this info may help out though. i confronted him about not speaking to me a couple days ago. he said that hes comfy and doesnt want to talk and i flat out asked him if he still wants to be in this. and he said he really does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2012): Seriously, i do not see or text my girlfriend everyday. I think about her constantly when i am alone. When i am with friends though it is like she does not exist(being honest here). When we are together though my world is complete and i could not wish for more. That smile means so much to me.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 At your age, boyfriends will come and boyfriends will go. Relationships don't usually last beyond a few months and trust me you're better off to date around before you later settle down. If I were you, I'd do him a big favor and cut him loose. Make it your choice. This gives you power in two ways; 1.You save your own self esteem by not being the person who gets dumped. Girls who do the dumping are seen as much for valuable than those who are always getting dumped. 2. You are giving him a way out because he obviously has lost interest and doesn't know how to say it. Since you have identified that you've both lost your drive to be together, what better time than now, to end it and move on. Don't waste another moment in a ho-hum relationship. The world is your oyster.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 January 2012):
 Are you in a LDR??
2 months in the "relationship" and it's already fizzling out? That's not good. I'd say you two aren't compatible.
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