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writes:I've been friends with a guy for a couple of years, he's been flirting, making all the right signals and chatting each day online. we see each other quite often, and recently met up on our own. all seemed fine, but then he started talking about wanting to get back with his girlfriend and asking me for advice. have i completely misread the situation? I know this sounds obvious, but all his other behaviour suggested he was interested in me.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (29 May 2011):
Hi there. It is entirely possible that he is trying to get an idea of how you feel about him.
Obviously you are not going to come right out and say it right from the beginning, but later on in a roundabout way, yes maybe. It's too soon yet though.
As you have known each other for a couple of years now, but as friends, just take it slowly so as to avoid getting hurt.
Then slowly but surely, see how it all pans out over time.
You also need to get a good idea of what's really happening in his world first, before you jump to any conclusions.
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reader, kylieekristina  +, writes (23 May 2011):
 Ouch!! That one hurts! i would say you still don't know how he's feeling because he may have said that trying to find out where you were at in regards to feelings for him. Maybe that was his way of testing your waters, or maybe not. Good luck
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