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Have I blown it and should I give up on him?

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Question - (1 March 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *mmiie writes:

Hello,

A boy in my school - who I like - has been texting me recently.. It started with my friend texting him on my phone saying "Get in my bed" or something like that. When he texted me back, i explained that it wasnt actually me. After this, he began texting me quite alot, at least 3 hours per day. He asked me every night if i would send him a sext, which i used to do. He found out i fancied him, and i told him i loved him, but he couldn't say it back he just said "ok.. what brought that on?" He also asked me for a naked picture of myself alot. One night I was feeling really down, because I thought he was just texting me because he wanted me to sext him (do you think he was?) So i told him to piss off... twice. (which was very stupid of me, I know) so.. can anyone help me? Please? x

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A female reader, Emmiie United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2011):

Emmiie is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thankyou for the advice! It has given me a new perspective on this and I will try and use it - he is really nice, but i will try and put him out of my thoughts :)

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A female reader, AnalyticalMentalityOx Australia +, writes (2 March 2011):

DO NOT send anymore pictures to this boy!! tennisstar88 is right, he is using you for his own pleasure. You did the right thing, cut off contact with him because it may turn nasty and he might try blackmailing you if you continue with this any longer.

My best friend used to send sexts to many boys, and they shared the picture around and she got a rep as slut even though she did nothing with any of the guys. You wont feel good about yourself, especially with this boy harassing you!

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (2 March 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntThis boy is using you for nothing but his sexual pleasure. DO NOT send him a photo of yourself and don't sext him anymore. You were absolutely right to tell him to piss off! Good for you. Now proceed to move on.

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