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writes: I've liked this guy for 9 months now, he knows I like him and about three months ago he messaged me and told me that he thinks it would be best if we just stayed friends. Ever since he said that, we haven't spoken to each other, and every time I get anywhere near him my stomach knots up and i get butterflys. I feel as though I might be in love with him, but after he said he only wants to be friends, its clear he doesn't really seem interested in me. Do I have any hope???
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reader, Anja +, writes (17 May 2006):
 The fact that he's not been in touch says a lot. But maybe try and get him to meet up with you for a casual coffee or something on a 'freindly' basis and take it from there.
He could be shy. Signs that he likes you and feels the same; he will blush and look a bit embarassed when talking to you, fidget a lot, maybe avoid eye contact whan speaking to you (if he's shy)...if he does like you then he will try and get to see you again, he will make escuses if he doesn't want to see you.
Think you may get better idea if only you could get him to go out with you...as I said keep it casual, you don't want to scare him off! Not sure if this helps...any more questions...just ask, hope all goes well for you, you sound really into this guy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat kinds of signs should i be looking for?? i can't stop thinking about him...
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reader, Anja +, writes (17 May 2006):
Possibly not. Or maybe he's scared that the friendship will be spoilt. I'm not sure about you being in love though as you have never been out with the guy, and he has never reciprocated your feelings on a romantic level. I would try and steer clear if I was you, the signs are not good!!
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