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writes:hi,i have a boyfriend that i love very much.when i am with him,it's amazing,when i am not,i badly miss him.the problem comes at night,when i have dreams with other boys of my surrounding all the time.and the other day when i see them i feel a small attraction that goes away after a while.is it normal?or am i not a faithful person deep inside?? Reply to this Question
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reader, helen17 +, writes (24 May 2010):
helen17 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very much!
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reader, Riku Tsumi  +, writes (24 May 2010):
I'd say that this is normal, if you happen to have a dream (normal not wet) then everything is fine, I have dreams of my friends all the time and I love my boyfriend very much. Just don't be tempted to stray from him while you're with him. If you start feel more intensely and you do something like kiss another guy then you should be more concerned and think of your feelings more. Also if that happens then you need to talk it out with your boyfriend, he might be able to pin point why you are straying. Two heads are better than one. Just because you love him doesn't mean there might not be something wrong that can be fixed or improved. However, at this point, just relax. Being attracted to someone besides your boyfriend is normal, it's, you know, that old habbit of looking at guys and thinking 'wow he's hot', just as long as that's where it stops.
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (23 May 2010):
 Relax Helen - this is normal. You personally are not in charge of your dreams. It has NOTHING to do with you as a person. Ok? Relax.
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