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Slept with my teacher, regret it but is this very bad?

Q.   About a fortnight ago now I ended up sleeping with my English teacher, i really regret it and I know he does too, I'm 18 and he is about 25, I couldn't help my self he is gorgeous!! Is it still as bad if our age is so close? It's not like he is 40 ! ...

A.   24 May 2010: Regardless if you are now of age and he's only a couple years older than you, it is still very inappropriate for a teacher and student to have sex. If you think you really like him or want to have that kind of relationship with him, wait til he is ... (read in full...)

Have a boyfriend, but dream of other boys, is this normal?

Q.   hi,i have a boyfriend that i love very much.when i am with him,it's amazing,when i am not,i badly miss him.the problem comes at night,when i have dreams with other boys of my surrounding all the time.and the other day when i see them i feel a small ...

A.   24 May 2010: I'd say that this is normal, if you happen to have a dream (normal not wet) then everything is fine, I have dreams of my friends all the time and I love my boyfriend very much. Just don't be tempted to stray from him while you're with him. If you ... (read in full...)

Any way that I would get pregnant doing this with a guy??

Q.   i was with a guy and he was lying on me and putting his hand between my leg and coming closer to my vigina would i get pregnant....

A.   24 May 2010: No, unless his sperm gets near your vagina you are not at risk of getting pregnant. Auntie E is also right to ask if this guy is your boyfriend, regardless you sound uncomfortable with his actions. You shouldn't let him do this to you if it makes ... (read in full...)

How do I tell him I gave him chlamydia?

Q.   It All Started a couple years ago, when i met this really nice boy richard, he gave me his number and we started talking more, we got really close then we started going out this boy was my "first love" we was going out for almost a year!. when we ...

A.   15 March 2010: First of all, don't stop talking to him, he's probably hurt and confused that you slept with him and now poof you've disappeared, you need to be honest with him. Before you tell him though make sure he realizes how much you like him. It is treatable ... (read in full...)

Coming out as gay -- by letter?

Q.   I'm a gay 19 year old male. I think it's time I came out (I've been certain of my sexuality for 4 years), but don't know how to do it. Do you think it would be OK to come out by letter to my Mum or both my parents, because I don't know how I could...

A.   15 March 2010: Most parents can be a bit outlandish at first if you surprise them and writing them a letter is just the cure for this. It'll give them time to think it through. You should probably also find out how they feel about the subject first and then write ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend can't get over losses ...

Q.   I need some advise please,I have recently asked a question and I have another please,It's to do with my girlfriend.She is always crying and stuff,she is like obsessed with her lately passed aunt.She's always going on about she misses her and she ...

A.   15 March 2010: oh my, that far of a distance and still together after 7 years, my major congrades on that accomplishment. As for her, tell her that you love her and that even though her aunt is gone she still has you and that you are going to try to help her ... (read in full...)

His mother left him but how much can we excuse his behavior.

Q.   I have been married for 4 years. We not had children of our own(o jam two sm he had one) his son has always done what he wants being an only child for so long and having been abandoned by host mother contributed in my husband and mother Im law to ...

A.   15 March 2010: To be honest it sounds like your family needs professional help, go see a family counselor. If your husband doesn't believe you the boy probably knows this and is using it to his advantage, have the school call your husband instead also if he ... (read in full...)

Could this get me pregnant?

Q.   Me and my boyfreind were dry humping, he asked me to relieve him and I let him cum over my breasts and stomach and there was loads of it, I cleaned it up with toilet paper and had a bath about an hour later, my friend said that was silly because I ...

A.   15 March 2010: Chances are no, although that statistic of 98% of sperm die when they hit the air is pure myth, if it didn't get anywhere near the vaginal region chances are you are NOT going to get pregnant, however I do agree with the idea that you should clean ... (read in full...)

The last thing I want is babies but that's all he wants!

Q.   Hi, Im 27 and been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. About 2 years ago the topic of children has come up and i am 110% sure i never want to have them-i dont like children and i made it very clear to him. He however wants children and being the on...

A.   6 February 2010: Well there's one thing that I have failed to see anyone bring up here, your boyfriend wants kids, and you don't want them, mostly it seems because you don't want to go through child birth. It seems that raising a kid doesn't repulse you half as much ... (read in full...)

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