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writes:Long story short, he asked me for my number. He texted me that day saying that he'd like to go to the movies later with me. I had a really busy day and didn't reply till the following day cause I didn't want to rush and say the wrong thing.I replied with something flirty back and then texted me back saying that he'd love to grab coffee with me and then show me some of his music followed by him sending me lyrics to a song he wrote recently.Since I needed to be in class all that day, I responded with, "Nice lyrics, I can't wait to hear it!!! I'm gonna be busy all today though. I think you'd be a good fitness instructor, what if you help me get fit on your favorite hiking trail and show me your music some more, Mr. Canciones? ; )"(Canciones means songs in Spanish)He hasn't replied and it's been two full days. Did I mess this up?I don't want to reach out cause I don't want to seem desperate or anythingWill he reach out or is this the end? He's about 35-40 in age I think.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 December 2017):
 Send him a message and set up a date, the ball is in your court now. No need to wait until he texts ect. No point in rules and playing games, if you like him ask him out! Simple as that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2017): Message him straight away and just explain that you don't get WhatsApp notifications and hadn't realised he sent you a message. He may not be completely familiar with how it works either - so he may not have realised that you hadn't seen his message. Don't say anything cryptic or flirty, just explain, apologise, say you'd still like to see him and leave it at that. If he doesn't respond, do nothing more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate: I just opened up my Whatsapp last night for the first time in a while and saw that he send me a message saying "Hey you" with a picture of himself. I had check the time and date of when he sent this message and saw that it was actually sent hours after I had sent him that (from over a week ago) message saying that I'd like to go hiking. I didn't reply at the time cause I dont get notifications for Whatsapp messages. It's been a week since he's sent that text. Whatsapp however shows the person whether or not someone has seen your message, so if he cared enough, he would check and see that i never saw his message. He didnt attempt to text me after that, so I'm wondering if it's best to just wait and see if he'll ever text me again or reach out to him? I'm just worried about looking despo, especially since hes the kind of guy that gets a lot of women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontrue. Thank you everyone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2017): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontrue. Thank you everyone!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (1 December 2017):
 You could give it another day or two and then reach out with a day/time you DO have time for a coffee... Doesn't have to be a long meet up, just 45 minutes to share a cup and have a little chat. THAT is..... IF you are interested in getting to know him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2017): Well, there's not much here to go based off of. How long have you known him? What kind of vibes does he give you? Does your gut say that something has shifted? If it we're me, I wouldn't message him again until he messaged me first just to play it safe.
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