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anonymous
writes:This guy has liked me for a year but i wasn't attracted to him back then until this year I told him recently that I like him too! and we both want to see how things go.When i text him he'll flirt back and be real sweet, but then sometimes he doesn't reply which is fine cause i don't expect an answer back to everything. But i'm the one who's always texting first and i feel like i'm making the effort and chasing him!! Is he playing a game or what? Because surely if he really liked me that much, he would be chasing me and making more of an effort right? What do you think, should I leave it or carry on trying? honest answers i don't mind![Added from poster's second question here]So I really like this guy, we'd be great together and I want to be with him. But then I don't want a relationship or the friends with benefits? What should I do, and what does this mean?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 March 2011):
 Yes, forget this being anything more than friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): he cannot be interested. i would reckon he probably does not want to be honest with you for whatever reason. if you want someone, you do something about it for chances someone else gets there,but he is not bothering.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthen i dont understand why he would tell me hes always liked me and still does, and then be the one who wants to meet up. But doesn't make any effort in showing me he wants to be more? Should i just carry on as before and forget this being anything more than friends......
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (2 March 2011):
I don't think he has given you enough for you to think he wants a friendship with benefits.
If he doesn't come your way, don't insist. He may have liked you a year ago, but now he may have other interests.
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