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Guys: is this normal or a fetish?

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Question - (27 July 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

A guy I'm seeing right now likes me to suck on his penis, literally, as hard as I can while giving him oral sex.

I don't have man parts, but when he mentioned it to me it sounded really painful. But anyhow, I did as he asked (and have done so ever since) and he definitely seems to love it, and I know he isn't into bdsm or anything like that; in fact, he dominates me if anything.

Is that normal, guys? Should I add it to my playbook or just think of it as just one of this guy's quirks? Would that be painful to you or does it sound tantalizing?

Thoughts?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (27 July 2010):

Honeypie agony auntThere are more ways then one to give oral ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010):

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BW: yeah, he has me suck as hard as I can and while he's in there, I give myself just enough space to lick his frenulum, which makes him go insane.

Anyhow, thanks, everyone, for clearing this up!! I guess this was just a weird misconception that i had...thanks to something I read in a magazine when I was like 13 lol.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010):

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BW: yeah, he has me suck as hard as I can and while he's in there, I give myself just enough space to lick his frenulum, which makes him go insane.

Anyhow, thanks, everyone, for clearing this up!! I guess this was just a weird misconception that i had...thanks to something I read in a magazine when I was like 13 lol.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010):

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Honiepie: a year ago, before I'd ever done anything, i totally DID read that book! lol...guess I don't remember her mentioning anything abt this, though....

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (27 July 2010):

Honeypie agony auntHoney, Buy this book. READ IT and memorize it..

http://www.ticklekitty.com/base/content.asp?section=products&dir=products&page=book-tickle_his_pickle

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010):

thats really the only way to do it...other wise its kinda boring

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (27 July 2010):

BrownWolf agony aunt

I will tell you the difference...The blow job is a sliding action, but the sucking hit the real sensitive spot between the head and the shaft of the pernis. That for us is like your clitoris. Maybe not as sensitive, but same idea.

Try licking there too.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010):

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Really? Wow, thanks! Somehow I swore I read in Cosmo a few years ago that when giving a bj, you aren't literally supposed to suck (because it hurts, hence this question), and I've never seen a chick in a porno suck, and I've never read in any how-to guides that I should.

But alright. :)

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (27 July 2010):

BrownWolf agony aunt

One word...ADD!!!

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