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writes:Hello all, I am in a relationship that is pretty green, six months into it. I have been friends with this girl for a long time, and really like her a lot. I have started to have to work away from home for a week to two weeks at a time. The first two week trip out of town she cheats on me and then tells me about it. She says shes sorry and its not anyone I know and she isn't going to go into the details. While I like that she was upfront and honest about it I am pretty hurt and mad because she has had this happen to her before so I never saw her doing it. I decided that I would give her a chance to earn my trust back and try to see if this will go somewhere. I was back for the weekend after it happened and she knows I'm in town and no calls, no texts no nothing. So the last day I'm back I ask her if she wants to see me before I leave so we hang out for a few hours. She says she didn't call me because she figures I don't want to talk to her. Now I'm back out of town and I have to call or text her if I want to talk to her .... this is my question, I am not the one that screwed up here and I don't think I should be the one always reaching out to her, should I just break it off or tell her that she needs to communicate with me more. I would really like to persue this relationship but the more we go without talking the more I can feel its wrong.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 July 2010):
6 months into it, and she's cheated the first time you go away. Then you come back and there are no calls or anything. She's not even doing a thing to make this better.
Dump her, find a woman who's not like this.
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reader, neadie winters  +, writes (27 July 2010):
ok this could be two things first did she really cheat or is she saying that she did just to see your reaction. she might be testing your love for her because love conquers all. she might be insercure with herself and might fear you might cheat on her. it has happen to her before so she prob still feels low about that because how long was she going out with the guy. if you know the answers to all above or tired them then
once a cheat always a cheat...
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