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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, i know you dont have to be perfect to be found attractive but how important are stretch marks to men? and does it effect them being physically attracted to you?( a males opinion as well please)Thanks x
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reader, Dr. Mark  +, writes (13 April 2007):
It shouldn't matter at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): Real attraction is not down to looks.
Real attraction is down to personality - who you are.
Pure physical attraction is superficial.
If you meet someone who really loves you for being you they will always see you as beaughtiful.
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reader, tank-claude +, writes (11 April 2007):
 personally no but there are superficial guys out there that will only like you if your a model but i you look there will be dudes like me who dont care if youre kate moss super model or kate taylor that works in tesco so no looks dont always matter my main advice is do some ecsercise to tightten the skin that should minimize the marks and eat lots of bright coulored fruit & veg that should finish the job
BEST OF LUCK
HUGS AND KISSES
XXXXX :) :)
AND SMILE DONT FROWN
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): What absolutely wonderful answers from the men, on this thread. Hats of to you, guys! Hun, stretchmarks, no matter the cause are indeed, just little imperfections, we all have. Any man, shallow enough to hold stretch marks against a woman is going to find more faults than some simple miniscule scars. Most of these types, do indeed, have their fair share of imperfections and likely aren't looking for a life partner, maybe just a short lived self-serving fantasy perhaps? I agree with Birdy...I really think women are harder on themselves as far as this type of thing goes. Most good, worthwhile, mature-thinking men couldn't care less and there are a lot out there. Having a loving relationship with your body and your whole self has little to do with the perfection of your skin or the curvature of you body, but has instead is about the radiance, the positivity, the warmth and energy you show the world. Beauty goes way beyond what lies on your skin. As far as men goes, I know many who have told me that, it's what is between the ears that counts. Good luck, dear.
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (11 April 2007):
 I can't remember the movie I saw this line in, but here's the drift - "Do men judge us when we're naked?" - "God NO! - We're just Grateful". I'd much rather take off my clothes in a room full of men than a room full of women!!! We all read WAY to many fashion magazines that are (airbrushed). Women judge their own bodies by far more critical standards than men will ever do. If you want a laugh, rent "Shirley Valentine" (with the girls), best statement on cellulite ever.
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (10 April 2007):
 I certainly don't mind them at all. My current girlfriend (who is much younger than I am) lost a LOT of weight about eight years ago and still has the stretch marks from that. Doesn't bother me a bit. Oh, and she's also had three children.
She's a wonderful person, extremely intelligent, very attractive, very sexy, and cooks well enough that I'm starting to worry about me gaining weight. Who the hell cares about a few stretch marks when you've got all of that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2007): Personally, not at all. I don't think stretch marks make anyone less attractive in the slightest. I think people are way too conscious about stretch marks, seriously if anything they are one of the little imperfections that make a women real and that is what is really attractive.
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reader, maria14r +, writes (10 April 2007):
you know what, i really think that it doesnt matter to men if you have stretch marks. they should like you the way you are.
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