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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok, I was involved with a girl for two months, and we broke up. The reasons why aren't important. What is, is that I'm still not over her, and I really need to convince myself that she's not right for me. -She's 15, I'm 18. -She lives in Florida, I live in Arizona.-It was a long distance relationship, and here's the thing. All i've seen of her are two pictures. We've talked on the phone a FEW times, but mostly we text or talk online. She said she loved me, and I said I loved her, but can you really feel those emotions based on what we've done? She's only seen one pic of me, and we never even video chatted. If we ever wanted to make this a real relationship, we would have to wait 3 years, (I'd be 21, she'd be 18), and who even says she'd be willing to wait? There are just so many reasons why this is a big no, but I just keep finding myself wishing I was back with her. I guess this isn't so much a question, as me looking for you guys to knock some sense into me. I'd love to hear your opinions on this. Thanks.
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reader, queensbean  +, writes (7 February 2011):
I'm not going to go on about how young she is. I am going to focus on YOU!! Your still young....18. You have your whole life ahead of you to find a woman. You change so much between now and 25. That EVEN if you stayed together...thats a big IF...you both would of changed so much you would know who your with anymore. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. Dont make a mistake to keep going with this. I have an mid thirties guy friend who did this and it ended up being NOTHING when they met. Your not so much in love with her as being in love with the thought of her kapich?=)
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